{"id":1609,"date":"2017-08-09T10:00:31","date_gmt":"2017-08-09T10:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/2017\/08\/09\/whats-inside-defines-your-relationship-with-god-2\/"},"modified":"2017-08-09T10:00:31","modified_gmt":"2017-08-09T10:00:31","slug":"whats-inside-defines-your-relationship-with-god-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/2017\/08\/09\/whats-inside-defines-your-relationship-with-god-2\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s Inside Defines Your Relationship With God"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Proverbs<br \/>\n16<\/p>\n<p>Verse 16:2 has always been a tough one for me:<\/p>\n<p>Even when you think you have good<br \/>\nintentions,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0He knows your real motives.<\/p>\n<p>What drives us deep down? Is it really to honor God or get<br \/>\nsomething in the end? I know often my inner drive is more based on \u201cwhat\u2019s in<br \/>\nit for me\u201d more than honoring God. It drives me up the wall since God does know<br \/>\nmy inner thoughts. I started the blog assuming God would bless it with some<br \/>\nagent reading it and signing a book deal. Over a thousand posts later and we<br \/>\nmay get 1 or 2 visitors a week, but now doing it to expand my knowledge and<br \/>\npray it helps another find Jesus.<\/p>\n<p>Verse 16:8 shows us the power of want:<\/p>\n<p>Better to have little and stand for<br \/>\nwhat is right<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0than to become rich by doing what is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus was not anti-wealth, but rather anti-separation from<br \/>\nGod. Money tends to get us busy and redirected to places away from God. This is<br \/>\nsaying avoid the distractions and be happy in what you have.<\/p>\n<p>Verse 16:18 has been paraphrased into almost a clich\u00e9:<\/p>\n<p>\nPride precedes destruction;<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0an arrogant spirit gives way to a\u00a0<i>nasty<\/i>\u00a0fall.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPride comes before a fall\u201d is this verse boiled down. I<br \/>\npersonally have experienced pride in racing before I literally fell. I was \u201chot<br \/>\npoo-poo\u201d then I crashed and suffered injuries, everything from concussions to<br \/>\nruptured disc in the back. All were preceded by me thinking I was some great<br \/>\nrider.<\/p>\n<p>Verse 16:32 addresses our drive:<\/p>\n<p>It is better to be a patient man<br \/>\nthan a\u00a0<i>mighty<\/i>\u00a0warrior,<br \/>\n\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0better to be someone who controls his temper than<br \/>\nsomeone who conquers a city.<\/p>\n<p>Asking someone to be patient today is a whole new ball game.<br \/>\nNo longer do we have to prepare food, but rather drive through gives it to us<br \/>\nnow. No longer do we need to go to the library to research a project, but we<br \/>\ncan answer deep questions at the kid\u2019s ball game with our iPhone. No longer do<br \/>\nwe need to go to a \u201cspecial store\u201d to purchase porn, now we can watch it at our<br \/>\nkid\u2019s ball game. \u00a0Patience is a lost<br \/>\nvirtue.<\/p>\n<p>I think the second line is more important since most<br \/>\nimpatient people tend to have an inability to control their temper. That causes<br \/>\nmore damage than anything!! A short outburst can destroy years of trust or<br \/>\nrespect. This cuts deep with me since my closest friends have been decimated by<br \/>\nmy sharp temper, Mike Lanning was the first. I blew up just playing around and<br \/>\nstuck him with a heavy gage wire \u201cwhip\u201d leaving a long lasting welt and a<br \/>\npermanently damaged relationship. This is really the key to patience, not doing<br \/>\nsomething stupid.<\/p>\n<p>p&gt;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Proverbs 16 Verse 16:2 has always been a tough one for me: Even when you think you have good intentions, \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0He knows your real motives. What drives us deep down? Is it really to honor God or get something in the end? I know often my inner drive is more based on \u201cwhat\u2019s in it &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/2017\/08\/09\/whats-inside-defines-your-relationship-with-god-2\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;What&#8217;s Inside Defines Your Relationship With God&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1609"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1609"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1609\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1609"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1609"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/emailsfromdad.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1609"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}